My son with his Aunt during the Grand Stacruzan
Anyway, before I give birth to my son when I was 25 I have been playing as a mother to my nephew when I was 20. My nephew is now a teeneger. There are times that I felt I did some mistakes on the way I raised my nephew. As early as 16 years old I found out that he is starting to have bad vices like drinking and smoking. I just hope it ends there.
Right now I am a little bit scared because my little budle of joy is in his teenage stage. I am afraid I might do the same mistake that I did on my nephew. Of course there are lots of techiques you can read on the books and online on how to raise a child. But we all know raising a child is not about reading and knowing what you've read. Though I believe it help a lot. I still believe that experience is the best way to learn. Yes, you may encounter a lot of struggle but at the end of day it will help you to get better.

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